The Fun You Can Have With Girls

An appealing title.. But I don’t mean like that. I mean pushing their buttons. A fun you don&#

Today I Wrote A Business Plan and Other Things

..Well kinda. I’ts not finished and I guess there’s a long way to go. I did get a lot do

Living With Expectation

After a chat with my Dad I realised I’ve moved away from the purpose of the blog! He suggested

 

The Fun You Can Have With Girls

January 16, 2012 in Women

An appealing title..

But I don’t mean like that. I mean pushing their buttons. A fun you don’t need stamina for.

Between the age of 15 and until around 25 pushing their buttons is easy! (And I would assume even older women are still easily pressed).

They are just so touchy. Anything and everything is a reason to be annoyed with you..

How do you do it?

Well say it’s your girlfriend or someone who has an interest in you.

Just mention another girl, there’s no need to be flirty or even mention her more than once. In 90% of cases it will get to her. She won’t show it unless she’s a long-term girl or a nut case. If she does get angry then it’s fine. She knows it’s wrong to be angry ..sorta a win-win as long as you don’t do it all the time and at least try to be subtle!

You could also do it by taking the piss.. a natural trait to most men. Benefits of this tactic include and are not limited to: fun, enjoyable, thrilling. Best of all, studies have shown it to be a masculine trait.

On a final note, you could also go flower arranging or clothes shopping.

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Today I Wrote A Business Plan and Other Things

January 11, 2012 in Today I..

..Well kinda.

I’ts not finished and I guess there’s a long way to go. I did get a lot done though, however I have realised how much I mumble on!

I suppose like most guys, I’m not good with words. Something I need to work on no doubt!

I also signed up for a health study to get a bit extra money for the savings. Productive day!

And yesterday I restarted gym again! Crazy times. What a go-getter. Ha.

I’ll end this real short post with a funny video.

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Living With Expectation

January 3, 2012 in A Young Mans Role

After a chat with my Dad I realised I’ve moved away from the purpose of the blog! He suggested changing the bi-line but I want to help young guys. So we’ll mix it up, although I won’t change the bi-line it’s now unofficially “A resource for young people plotting their way in life and ramblings of a young man.”

Not catchy but it’ll do!

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Society in England is very education focused. And I have stated my views on education here and here. With that comes expectation from many different people. Family, friends and acquaintances.

Everyone will expect you to work hard through it, get good results, commit a lot of your time to it and carry it on until you find a ‘safe’ job. While I have found you can only change their expectations a minimal amount, it generally isn’t worth the arguing and potential stress it causes.

Instead I would play the game. Find the areas that you can take advantage of. You can do anything you want to, and you can plan for it and take action to do it under the radar of everyone. And you can do anything if you have a definite purpose.

The people with expectations of you will 95% of the time not have a definite purpose for you. It’ll be a general aim, like a good job. Not fireman/banker/artist. You can easily get yourself 1up like this.

It’s very important you learn how to play the expectation as early as you can, you’ll get it for many years in different forms. I can’t tell you how to play it because everyone is in a different situation, that’s what you need to find out.

There are a few things you can do to build up your knowledge before you start on it.

1) Find out what the expectants value and how you can provide it in a way which’ll suit you.

2) Know what you want. This is so important.

3) Learn to negotiate. At some point you will have to negotiate.

At all times you should keep to your values, whilst keeping your cool. That’s the mistake I made and while I did get change, it wasn’t a lot.

 

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England and 2012

January 2, 2012 in England

What a year we have coming up.

With the Olympics, European Championships and the Queens Diamond Jubilee we’re in for a treat.

The Olympics is definitely the most incredible. It will probably be the only time its in England in my life time. Although I don’t feel compelled to go and buy the tickets with prices being ridiculous for most events.

I will be more focused on a few events/people;

Ping Pong – Its unbelievable and quite fun to play.

Mo Farah – He could do well at this Olympics.

Football - It’ll be interesting how ‘Team GB’ do.

Usain Bolt – Without a doubt one of the best athletes competing.

As well as the Olympics being a great show-case of sporting talent, it will also bring brilliant facilities to be used after the event. Olympic Stadium being the flag-ship of them all. This building has not yet been fully built and yet there’s controversy over it already in regard to Tottenham and West Ham.

Euro 2012 should be brilliant for England, although there’s always the risk we’ll fall apart. I hope to see a younger team out there, one for the future. Much like the German squad of World Cup 2010.

With Spain favourites from the start we should see some great displays.

However for me this year will hopefully hold opportunities. What about you?

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Innocent girls trying to be Sluts; Sluts trying to be innocent.

January 1, 2012 in Women

Everyone wants to sleep with someone or face social mockery.

Everyone wants to sleep with someone to gain reputation.

Everyone wants to sleep with someone to have fun.

2 types in particular are interesting.

Innocent Girls

These are the ones who started on the dating scene later than most, and quickly changed their social status using the means of Facebook to make them more popular, more attractive. However these girls love to try to be sluts.

And it’s probably for attention.

Sluts

These are the ones that often give out sex. Often you’ll hear of the reputation before you hear of them if you’re in a smaller environment. So these girls are attempting to change their ways after realising they used to make it so easy for men to get it.

 

How are they doing it?

The main one I seem to notice is on social networking sites. Through statuses/comments like;

“omg wish I never did that :( ” – an innocent girl who did minor things with multiple guys whilst drunken.

and “spending the night in revising :) ” – from a slutty girl who actually won’t revise and will just text multiple guys all night.

An innocent girl may have one or two nights where they do something naughty just on the barriers of innocent. And a slutty girl may do something naughty on a night whilst knocking on the door of innocent.

In the settings of college/university innocent girls have a great time to edge further to being a slut. Clubbing and alcohol are the direct route to this.

So they get ready with their friends, head out to wherever, get drunk and look a bit ‘easy’. Waiting for anyone half good-looking to come along before they latch onto them like a dog on a bone. However this is the same for sluts, but it is expected so it’s not worth mentioning.

Sluts will try to head towards innocent just by keeping ‘under the radar’ to the majority of most people.

All this is fine, because everyone loves an innocent slut.

 

Why would you do this?

While it’s good that a guy can go from being a nerd to a decent PUA, I doubt any guy would go back. So why do the girls do it?

In modern-day British/Western society they don’t know how to behave. They don’t know how to enhance themselves and make themselves more valuable.

Nearly every woman does not know how to play the long game with things other than what colour to dye their hair next summer and what jumper they want for the winter.

So they give away their most valuable possession and then the respect for them vanishes. They’re not bothered about losing the respect (if they even realise it), because they’re suddenly getting a flood of boys giving them attention.

Silly females.

Now they’re at the other side of the scale what do they do?

Well now they’ve got their reputation and will strive to get back to the other side. What a life experience.

 

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Gaming My Girlfriend

December 30, 2011 in Game

When your into blogging you will no doubt come across the blogs that are focused on Game. You read through them, and either think this is bullshit or that i’s fantastic. If you choose the latter, you will continue to read and spend multiple nights until you finally put it into practice.

Give a warm welcome to the Girlfriend..

Our relationship is pretty good. I generally treat her well. Mistake #1. I give in easily because I enjoy making her happy. Mistake #2. And I’m the keen one 80% of the time because I’m a gentleman. Mistake #3.

So my aim here was to improve the relationship and regain the power.

The first time I applied it she reacted oddly, being stubborn and making me angry. I introduced the principles of Game waaaay too much. So the second and all the times up until yesterday I have been gradually increasing bringing it in and will continue to do so.

The reason for me writing this, is that yesterday we made some good progress. I was assertive and decisive. And she loved it. I was in completed control deciding what we’re doing and when. I added to this by not being the keen one and texting her because I’ve got things to be doing.

There is progress to be made still! We shall see what happens.

A final note on “girls love jerks”. This could not be more true than a friend of mine who moans to me consistently about her boyfriend who neglects her.. Not only is this an easy opportunity to hone my Game technique on her but it is also a shining example.

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Christmas

December 26, 2011 in Culture

Christmas has passed for another year. A different Christmas this was.

Usually we spend the morning at friends and the afternoon with family, but this time we did not see the family due to them moving.

However that is not what was different this year.

I have finally realised how into the Man’s world I am. Having been one for a good few months now I haven’t noticed too much of a difference. Then I had to unwrap the presents, and what did I find.. socks, underwear, shaver, deodorant, more socks and a belt. WOW.

Now I will mention that my presents also included Football Manager 2012 and Pokemon Black (still a fan..).

These ‘old’ presents were not bad though, they were useful and what I needed. I needed a belt because I can’t justify to myself paying money to hold my trousers up. I needed a shaver, because mines shit. I needed underwear so my nuts could see a new environment.

Even for my birthday earlier this year there was nothing I wanted other than a suit.

I always wonder why people (particularly my mates) don’t use their money more wisely. It’s necessities vs luxuries. I suppose it’s down to people’s values.

Why do men start to get useful presents?

There can only be one reason. I’m being prepared to leave home! To be more self-sufficient!

It’s understandable, but it’s not practical! There are no benefits to leaving home that can justify the amount of money I’ll have to pay! The worst thing about this new tactic is that it is used by everybody. Your Mum and Dad, your Girlfriend, your Grandparents they all get involved to simultaneously encourage you to leave. Maybe without even knowing it!

I suppose that’s the capitalist way, the culture. To go out, and make something for yourself. I still feel that I have a few more years left at home. Until I can support myself, and I’m sure the parents are fine with that.

Merry Christmas All.

 

 

 

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Men; the mind readers.

December 23, 2011 in Women

“You should’ve know!

You don’t know me at all!”

2 phrases that I’ve just been told over and over in the last hour. What happened? My girlfriend had some bad news, didn’t tell me. I then employed her best friend to get it out of her.. Followed by a barrage from them how I should’ve known the problem.

So was I supposed to know something that I wasn’t told? You could argue that I should know her, but she doesn’t even let on. It’s a lose-lose. So how do we sort it out? No we don’t talk it through, we don’t get to the problem, my girlfriend still doesn’t tell me the actual problem but we drop it.

Now dropping would be fine, if I had actually been in the wrong. But women are fucked up and men are not mind readers.

All that does is leave a guy with doubts on a relationship and thoughts of ‘better’ things.

So imagine if men could really read minds, would life be easier for women? I doubt it. In fact they’d have to find another way to hide their motives and thoughts.

At the end of the day, women have put themselves in a trap that men get the stick for.

 

 

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The Crazy and Deluded Mind of The Women

December 20, 2011 in Culture, Women

It’s clear that women are fucked in the head. But it seems to work for them as much as it shouldn’t. However there is one aspect of women that is just a giant ball of confusion to me..

Why do they place importance on the unimportant?

I ask this question because the number 1 woman in my life, my mum, has just asked “How that world goes around?” This is in response to me saying “I’ve decided I CBA to cook shortbread.” So the world she is referring to is my age group’s world. The world of the cba as she says. But she has come to this conclusion from what?! Me not wanting to make shortbread? With little consideration of what I might be doing instead, or why I don’t want to.

I can only assume that they find it hard to place value in the bigger picture.

This cannot be a good model for success and yet it’s so common. The reason for this could be a lacking of experience. As men have had a much longer time in the dominant role, we’ve fine tuned our ability to realise whats important, and what to deal with.

Another situation I often find myself in is when I’m doing a task and the person who’s assigned me this task comes along and gets me to focus on a less relevant, less productive and less urgent task. While this other task will make a bit of progress, it’s not nearly as important as the one I’m originally doing. And as you would’ve guessed, it’s always a woman.

I understand there’s some exceptions, however they are rare. Also for all you oldies, CBA means can’t be arsed.

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I Know What To Learn

December 19, 2011 in Learning a New Language, Today I..

In a recent post I wrote that I was edging towards learning a language along with finding my passion.

German. That’s the language I’m going to learn, and rather than just tell you how it’s going I’m going to use this blog to as a study aid! Telling you what I’ve learned, why it’s helpful and what not.

Why did I choose it? Well my Dad suggested it, for multiple reasons. They’ll be the european super power for a while.. it’s easier than chinese.. and the Anglo saxon origins of our language make them fairly similar.

Es ist gut – It is good. The first thing in German i’ve learnt. Learning a language.. es ist gut!

Was wollen sie trinken? – What do you want to drink? Now a multi-lingual bar poacher.

Wollen sie mit mir kommen? – Do you want to come with me? Oh yeaaaah I’m getting good.

Loving this language stuff.

To add a bit more background to why I have chosen to learn a language. I really want to. Pretty much.

Throughout education I’ve been taught French, Spanish and Latin. I was only really any good at Latin. There was a time in my Spanish-speaking exam where I was the only one to be asked to sit down half way through my speech.. that wasn’t fun. I was struggling!

 

Will keep you updated!

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